Love is a beautiful feeling , no one can deny that . We all hope to experience this someday.
Is love ever enough in a relationship be it intimate , friendship or family , no matter the nature of the relationship love is only an accept of the relationship.
Most of us love the idea of being in love but fail to fall in love with ourselves or our partner. I read this book by T.D Jakes sometime this year it's titled " THE LADY , HER LOVER, AND HER LORD" he said the only way one can really be in love with another person is by first being in love with herself then her Lord before she is able to love another human being.
I had a conversation with a married man recently and that motivated me to write this article lets call him "O"
"O" told me when he met his wife she used to dress up for him always looking hot and sexy and after marriage she became relaxed more like she had accomplished her life-long goal and there was no need to dress up and look sexy now bear in mind that "O" met his wife as when she was still trying impress guys and trying to get a guy to commit , and after she gets married she decides to deprive her husband of the pleasures that he would normally enjoy if they weren't married , like sex on a regular basis , she doesn't wear makeup anymore , she ties wrapper to sleep instead of a sexy lingerie.
It is one thing to get married its another thing to stay married, getting married is easy the work begins after marriage.
Now love is very crucial in every relationship but love is just a part of a bigger picture now how do I stay in love with my partner after years or months of being together , I will share some things, I believe are essential to being love and staying in love for as long as possible. I call it TTTS
Trust your partner
Lack of trust in a relationship leads to so many things , it leads to doubt, constantly second guessing every move your partner makes , even when they are being and that can bring the relationship or marriage to an end when there is little or no trust in the relationship.
Tolerance
Learn to tolerate "SOMETHINGS" your partner might do or not do because, in the long run, it might take them some time to get used to having you around them all the time
Talk about Everything and Anything
Communication is very important in any relationship ( i know some of are nodding your head and saying I already know) but talking about anything and everything is actually quite hard how do you tell them without having to offend their feelings how do you table your matter to them how do say things without sounding like you are complaining.
SEX have lots of SEX
Sex will keep u together and close having that intimate experience with some you will only keep u too together. Don't make sex boring or like ts too much work. SEX IS FUN
READ,SHARE ,LIKE AND COMMENT
It is one thing to get married its another thing to stay married, getting married is easy the work begins after marriage.
Now love is very crucial in every relationship but love is just a part of a bigger picture now how do I stay in love with my partner after years or months of being together , I will share some things, I believe are essential to being love and staying in love for as long as possible. I call it TTTS
Trust your partner
Lack of trust in a relationship leads to so many things , it leads to doubt, constantly second guessing every move your partner makes , even when they are being and that can bring the relationship or marriage to an end when there is little or no trust in the relationship.
Tolerance
Learn to tolerate "SOMETHINGS" your partner might do or not do because, in the long run, it might take them some time to get used to having you around them all the time
Talk about Everything and Anything
Communication is very important in any relationship ( i know some of are nodding your head and saying I already know) but talking about anything and everything is actually quite hard how do you tell them without having to offend their feelings how do you table your matter to them how do say things without sounding like you are complaining.
SEX have lots of SEX
Sex will keep u together and close having that intimate experience with some you will only keep u too together. Don't make sex boring or like ts too much work. SEX IS FUN
READ,SHARE ,LIKE AND COMMENT
Comments
Post a Comment