/ SEXIFACTION /

Sex is a very "satisfying" feeling i think thats why most times it's hard for most women to tell if they cum during sex or not , thats why u hear some women say " i dont cum when having sex" or "I have never cum during sex".

As a woman, i think it's important to know what stimulates you sexually whether it's intercourse or clitoral stimulation either by masturbation or by someone of the opposite sex or someone of the sex (keep an open mind). For young girls between the ages of 19 _30  (19 because I think thats the right age for any grown woman to start having sex my opinion remember you have yours) its hard for us to reach orgasm by intercourse because at this age we are still trying to understand our body and social media, movies and porn doesn't help either , the perfect sex scene man, woman, sex and she cumz giving  a loud moan. And for the longest time I had sex like that I  would just lay there and wait for like 10 - 20 miniutes in my head ( I have a head timer, by the way, I think everyone does) and just give a loud moan with the occassional am coming into it and vola the poor guy thinks he has done a credible job not knowning this chick isnt even close to coming not because he didnt does I good job ( i think) but because I didn't know what coming felt like. Enough about  my sex life.

Anorgasmia
Definition: Anorgasmia is an inability to reach orgasm and is thought to occur in about 10% of women. Anorgasmia may be either primary (the woman has never been able to reach an orgasm by any means) or secondary (an orgasm was experienced at some point in the past). It may also be global (orgasm is not experienced by any means) or situational (orgasm may be experienced in certain sexual situations but not others; for example, with manual stimulation but not with intercourse. ( Lifted)

So ladies when whenever  you say I have never reached orgasm before u might have but u have no idea what it feels like, they didn't teach us that when they taught sex education  in college , they taught us where are privates were , what will happen when u get your first  menstrual period and become pregnant like that's it. Most times I envy the opposite sex as to how easy they find it to orgasm like it's not even difficult for them whether its premature ejaculation or not the point is they do even when they are not trying so hard.

So like i said understanding  your body helps alot for u to reach orgasm it's advisable to indulge in a little bit of masturbation ( or alot whatever paddles your boat) just to know what part of your body is sensitive and to know what orgasm feels like , this is the only way you direct your partner on how to touch or not to touch you , this will make sex easy for u and your patner not everytime you want to have sex its like try and error or like an OBJ exmaz (guess work). Knowledge is key and having of understanding of how your body works not just your Vjay jay am talking about your neck , your back it might be your feet wherever u must be willing to explore yourself to understand which areas are sensitive or nah.

U should also try out different positions know which postions stimulates you the more it can't just be one style all the time , try to encourage your patner without trying to sound like you are taking the charge of the bedroom cause men like to feel they are in control in this area, (which I think  is total B.S thats another topic for another day) to try out new and exciting positions till u find one that stimultes u enough to orgasm during intercourse but if u still find it very hard to orgasm during sex and find clitoral stimulation more appealing , you and your patner can discuss about it either he stimulates you manually before he penetrates or after , I will recommend before because he might be tired after (You know the way some men are after they cum) .

Have never been a fan of sex toys but heard it could help out alot since you are the one in control of what goes in where , how fast or how slow it's a good thing to get one to know what works out for you though and not just keeo screaming harder and faster because thats what we hear in movies nd watch in porn. The key word here is "EXPLORE"  with your partner,  with yourself, don't be shy or be grossed out about .

"Once you have discovered how satisfying sex ,  you will never find it boring".