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Love is a beautiful feeling , no one can deny that . We all hope to experience this someday. Is love ever enough in a relationship be it intimate , friendship or family , no matter the nature of the relationship love is only an accept of the relationship. Most of us love the idea of being in love but fail to fall in love with ourselves or our partner. I read this book by T.D Jakes sometime this year it's titled " THE LADY , HER LOVER, AND HER LORD" he said the only way one  can really be in love with another person is by first being in love with herself then her Lord before she is able to love another human being.  I had a conversation with a married man recently and that motivated me to write this article lets call him "O"  "O" told me when he met his wife she used to dress up for him always looking hot and sexy and after marriage she became relaxed more like she had accomplished her life-long goal and there was no need to dress up and l

DOES IT? This post is mainly for the guys and girls too , Okie it's for everyone. The size of guys penis is usually a topic that brings giggles to people's faces  , a funny enough topic(Yeah)  but at the same time, it's very important. Most people shy away from talking about it. As a woman do you worry about the size of your boyfriend's penis and it not meeting your sexual satisfaction or it hurting you , as a man do you worry about how small your penis is or it not meeting your partner's need sexually or being too huge and hurting your partner during intercourse. What I Think Does size matter? The answer is Yes and No (I will explain ) YES!!!! size does matter, some women want a guy who has a sizeable penis that will be able to fill her up properly , a penis that you can fill when it's inside . Some women enjoy sex with men with only if such men in question have a sizeable and is able to give her maximum satisfaction. Now most woman aren't con

In every relationship, sex is one of if not the most important ( I know not everyone is gonna agree with me) but sex is essential. Now for guys they determine if they want to be in a relationship with a girl if there is any form of physical attraction between them and the opposite sex in question. Physical attraction = sex = love  OR physical attraction = love = sex . No matter how you want to place it sex is always part of the mix. In my post titled,  / 1st 5 minutes b4 Sex/ I wrote guys know within the first 5 minutes if they want to have sex with you or not all it takes for them to be attracted to you physically which can later lead to sex itself. Often times people say men love sex more than women ( NO THATS NOT TRUE )  I like to think women like/love sex as much men do, now the only difference is  MEN : Focus on sex and fall in love late  WOMEN : Focus on love and have sex later.  Sex is a deep intimate bond/connection between two partners (same or oppo

"First impression matters a lot" the 1st 5 minutes of meeting someone/anyone matters a lot from your choice of clothing to the way you laugh , the questions you ask  , the way you sound e.t.c Most men know if they want to have sex with you or not within the first 5 minutes of meeting you , most women will say it doesn't work for them that way ( guess what is all bull crap) it works just like that for women,  the only difference is for men it's never up to 5 minutes,  for most women it's usually up to 5 minutes or more (but lets just stick to 5 minutes) It's popular knowledge that men are moved by sight and women are moved by what they hear (words , whispering sweet nothings into her ear). The same applies to men in the 1st 5 minutes theory but not so much for women. This is  because she is moved by what she sees , the way you act , how long you can hold a conversation , do you have a good sense of humour , e.t.c .  You might be thinking is all this pos

I often find myself amazed at how people throw the phrase around , I love u [ really !!! Why ?]. The question is "DOES ANYBODY UNDERSTAND LOVE" , to an extent I think we all understand what Divine love is [love for a supreme being , in my case the love I have for GOD because I believe He exists ] , why should I love someone who isn't related to me in any way. Love, at first sight, amuses me { because I believe it's a farce } you know nothing about me [ I   could be a serial killer ] but then u calm you love me even without knowing me or knowing if we are compatible [ you will be surprised at the amount of people who fall for this CRAP ]. Before I continue; Ladies  if a guy tells you he loves you the first time he meets you = I want have sex with you or you are really wealthy and vice versa  LOVE;   a strong feeling of affection   a great interest and pleasure in something   a feeling of deep affection or sexual love for someone

I love this saying "nothing goes for nothing" , there is no free lunch in life, you can apply this theory to every aspect of your life , in your place of work ,your home, religion ( tithes :want blessing you should be willing to sow a seed or tap into the blessing by putting money into the testimony bowl "in some churches") , relationship, your sex life e.tc. Some of you might disagree with me on this , not trying to sound religious (this isn't a religious article) , my pastor once made a comment in church                           "The only way you can receive is                            when your palm(s) is(are) open                             the only way for your hands to                             be open is when you GIVE"                     GIVE AND TAKE : Mutual concessions and compromise This brings to why I choose to write about this, i think (my opinion) most times people ( over 19) find it hard to apply this theory in