/GIVE AND TAKE/

I love this saying "nothing goes for nothing" , there is no free lunch in life, you can apply this theory to every aspect of your life , in your place of work ,your home, religion ( tithes :want blessing you should be willing to sow a seed or tap into the blessing by putting money into the testimony bowl "in some churches") , relationship, your sex life e.tc. Some of you might disagree with me on this , not trying to sound religious (this isn't a religious article), my pastor once made a comment in church

                          "The only way you can receive is
                           when your palm(s) is(are) open
                            the only way for your hands to
                            be open is when you GIVE"
                  



GIVE AND TAKE : Mutual concessions and compromise

This brings to why I choose to write about this, i think (my opinion) most times people( over 19) find it hard to apply this theory in the bedroom , its either they make it about their partner alone or satisfy their partner first and themselves later people find this flattering (i think it's freaking annoying) , this doesn't mean you should make it all about you either (selfish). This just means you should make it about "US" together it doesn't have to be a routine of  guy satisfy girl first until she is probably really weak and can't do anything but just lie there and think please dude can you just finish up already ( Lmao am in so much trouble). It should about us pleasing each other at the same time (am not talking about 69)

We feel excitement together , touch me (let me return the favour) , make moan( let me make u moan louder) , don't just focus on me and do all the work , I want to work too I don't wanna feel like am lazy in the bedroom.  Most guys I meet complain  how girls are in the bedroom my response "why won't we be lazy when all you want to do is show up and show out" what else are we gonna do about . I want to know I turn you on as much as you turn me on, get turned on just by turning you on.

Am not gonna deny that most times it feels good it being all about me , it would be nice we could spice things up and alternate it  once in a while just to keep things exciting.

I still find it kinda hard to understand why some guys find it hard to give after taking from a lady , am talking about B.Jz now (blow job) if a lady sucks you off the least you could do is return the favour some guys give some ridiculous reasons like "Ohh you wanted me to " , "Do u like receiving head" ,Your vagina secretes more juice than my penis ( dude you have something called pre-cum and i have that in my mouth) . Stop giving this "no reason reasons".  Its either you like it or you don't  some guys say girls over react when we don't get it back well guess what its because at some point we might feel cheated ( u r just being selfish ). It's all about "GIVE AND TAKE " guys as a girl am not gonna give what i "know" am not gonna get back from you sorry.

Let's sex be about "US" don't focus on fucking her brains so she can tell the story to all her friends about how you did everything and just let her lay there without doing any work and how satisfying it was (boring). It's  division of labour "u delegates different responsibilities to people just so it can be effective" .

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