Just Talk

"First impression matters a lot" the 1st 5 minutes of meeting someone/anyone matters a lot from your choice of clothing to the way you laugh , the questions you ask  , the way you sound e.t.c Most men know if they want to have sex with you or not within the first 5 minutes of meeting you , most women will say it doesn't work for them that way ( guess what is all bull crap) it works just like that for women,  the only difference is for men it's never up to 5 minutes,  for most women it's usually up to 5 minutes or more (but lets just stick to 5 minutes) It's popular knowledge that men are moved by sight and women are moved by what they hear (words , whispering sweet nothings into her ear). The same applies to men in the 1st 5 minutes theory but not so much for women. This is  because she is moved by what she sees , the way you act , how long you can hold a conversation , do you have a good sense of humour , e.t.c .  You might be thinking is all this pos...

I often find myself amazed at how people throw the phrase around , I love u [ really !!! Why ?]. The question is "DOES ANYBODY UNDERSTAND LOVE" , to an extent I think we all understand what Divine love is [love for a supreme being , in my case the love I have for GOD because I believe He exists ] , why should I love someone who isn't related to me in any way. Love, at first sight, amuses me { because I believe it's a farce } you know nothing about me [ I   could be a serial killer ] but then u calm you love me even without knowing me or knowing if we are compatible [ you will be surprised at the amount of people who fall for this CRAP ]. Before I continue; Ladies  if a guy tells you he loves you the first time he meets you = I want have sex with you or you are really wealthy and vice versa  LOVE;   a strong feeling of affection   a great interest and pleasure in something   a feeling of deep affection or se...

I love this saying "nothing goes for nothing" , there is no free lunch in life, you can apply this theory to every aspect of your life , in your place of work ,your home, religion ( tithes :want blessing you should be willing to sow a seed or tap into the blessing by putting money into the testimony bowl "in some churches") , relationship, your sex life e.tc. Some of you might disagree with me on this , not trying to sound religious (this isn't a religious article) , my pastor once made a comment in church                           "The only way you can receive is                            when your palm(s) is(are) open                    ...

Taking pitures is all about capturing moments , like that perfect smile or that face you make when you are suprised about something pleasant, just beautiful moments that can make you uhhhhhhh and awwww just looking at the pictures. Remember back when you needed to pay a photographer a ridiculous amount of money just have your pictures taking maybe at an event or you just wanted to have pictuers of yourself not for a portfolio but for the purpose of having memories, with invention of the andriod phone it made things alot easier , we could take pictures , lots of pictures,  you could save them with your phone , have them printed out if you wanted , then came andriod phones with the front cameras and soon after "SELFIES"  ( PICTURES TAKEN BY YOURSELF OF YOURSELF FOR YOURSELF) people go carzy with taking  selfies, remember the oscar selfie . Now imagine this picture taken with a selfie stick and how much nicer it would have been not that this is not a lovely pic its on...

Sex is a very "satisfying" feeling i think thats why most times it's hard for most women to tell if they cum during sex or not , thats why u hear some women say " i dont cum when having sex" or "I have never cum during sex". As a woman, i think it's important to know what stimulates you sexually whether it's intercourse or clitoral stimulation either by masturbation or by someone of the opposite sex or someone of the sex (keep an open mind). For young girls between the ages of 19 _30  (19 because I think thats the right age for any grown woman to start having sex my opinion remember you have yours) its hard for us to reach orgasm by intercourse because at this age we are still trying to understand our body and social media, movies and porn doesn't help either , the perfect sex scene man, woman, sex and she cumz giving  a loud moan. And for the longest time I had sex like that I  would just lay there and wait for li...