Love is a beautiful feeling , no one can deny that . We all hope to experience this someday. Is love ever enough in a relationship be it intimate , friendship or family , no matter the nature of the relationship love is only an accept of the relationship. Most of us love the idea of being in love but fail to fall in love with ourselves or our partner. I read this book by T.D Jakes sometime this year it's titled " THE LADY , HER LOVER, AND HER LORD" he said the only way one can really be in love with another person is by first being in love with herself then her Lord before she is able to love another human being. I had a conversation with a married man recently and that motivated me to write this article lets call him "O" "O" told me when he met his wife she used to dress up for him always looking hot and sexy and after marriage she became relaxed more like she had accomplished her life-long goal and there was no need to dress up and l...