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LOVE AS I KNOW IT

I often find myself amazed at how people throw the phrase around , I love u [ really!!! Why?].


The question is "DOES ANYBODY UNDERSTAND LOVE" , to an extent I think we all understand what Divine love is [love for a supreme being , in my case the love I have for GOD because I believe He exists] , why should I love someone who isn't related to me in any way. Love, at first sight, amuses me { because I believe it's a farce} you know nothing about me [ I could be a serial killer] but then u calm you love me even without knowing me or knowing if we are compatible [ you will be surprised at the amount of people who fall for this CRAP ].


Before I continue; Ladies  if a guy tells you he loves you the first time he meets you = I want have sex with you or you are really wealthy and vice versa 




LOVE; 
 a strong feeling of affection 
 a great interest and pleasure in something 
 a feeling of deep affection or sexual love for someone



Funny fact the phrase "WHAT IS LOVE" was the most searched in  #GOOGLE in 2012 ( guess am not the only one confused one). Love can mean so many things 
I love u = I love spending time with you
I love u = I am happy that you came 
I love u = I have no other option but to
I love u = I really like u 
I love u = I want to have sex with u [ most times love isn't needed for this]

My question is, when is  I love u = I love u [ void of hidden messages] , am not gonna pretend like I know what it is because I don't , Sometimes I think it's just a phrase people throw around to make one another feel better, in my quest to fully understand what love is I found out the different variation of  "LOVE"


  • 1) Philia ; Deep but not usually sexual intimacy between close friends and family ( unless u wanna commit incest)



  • 2)Ludus ; playful affection ( flirting)



  • 3)Pragma ; mature love that develops over a long period of time between long term couples ( i believe this is when it turns to tolerance , practising goodwill, commitment , compromise , understanding and tolerance ) basically you have no choice

  • 4)Agape; this is love for GOD ( a supreme being ) and love for humanity

  • 5)Philautia; love for yourself ( you can't love someone without loving yourself)
  • 6)Eros; about sexual passion and desire unless it develops into pragma or philla , eros will die out ( as soon as he/she gets the candy stick or cookie jar respectively) 


Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting is all about what you are willing to give ( which has to be everything no compromise) , but the reality is as humans we are selfish , nobody is willing to give everything just when u think you are giving 100% you are actually just giving 40%.  Think about this giving someone your everything . your time , you plan your whole world around that person , you build your whole life around that person, every single thing you do he / she has to know that is giving your everything ( I call this monitoring spirit ) .

In reality this is what love is and if you say you are in love and this isn't what you are practising ( then u are JONZING )
p.s (monitoring spirit ) means someone who is  always in your business
     (JONZING ) means  a joker

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