In every relationship, sex is one of if not the most important ( I know not everyone is gonna agree with me) but sex is essential. Now for guys they determine if they want to be in a relationship with a girl if there is any form of physical attraction between them and the opposite sex in question. Physical attraction = sex = love OR physical attraction = love = sex . No matter how you want to place it sex is always part of the mix. In my post titled, / 1st 5 minutes b4 Sex/ I wrote guys know within the first 5 minutes if they want to have sex with you or not all it takes for them to be attracted to you physically which can later lead to sex itself. Often times people say men love sex more than women ( NO THATS NOT TRUE ) I like to think women like/love sex as much men do, now the only difference is MEN : Focus on sex and fall in love late WOMEN : Focus on love and have sex later. Sex is a deep ...